Premature ejaculation: Self hypnosis to cure
Premature ejaculation is a symbol of mind losing its control over muscles. Sexual intimacy is one activity that makes the conscious mind go off; instincts follow. Instincts are kind of genetic codes on behavior patterns that hold the progeny important, not pleasure. This is why, quick ejaculation is not a problem but any underlying condition creating it is. Treating the condition will cure premature ejaculation; however, if things arise from anxiety disorders or paranoia, self hypnosis helps a lot.
Self-hypnosis have benefitted the stressed, those lacking self esteem or overly aggressive behavior and is done with a word or phrase that’s repeated. This should be a deliberate attempt from the patient. But hypnosis holds a dubious image despite its practical and useful sides. Hypnosis techniques are not necessarily unwarranted mystical and magical rituals. It is all about achieving a deep relaxation, so self hypnosis can be termed a stress management tool.
The first requirement is a comfortable and quiet place. The body must relax fully and that is beyond the known point of relaxation. Deeper the states of relaxations; better are outcomes. At the last state of relaxation, you start taking the vows you prepared formerly. Ideal spans are between 15 and 25 minutes.
To aid you with the process, the market currently floods with hypnosis products, some specifically designed to target PE. Audiovisual training modules in portable media (CDs/DVDs) sell higher than props, which signifies either few people venture into self-hypnosis with adequate seriousness; or, the audiovisual are enough to make you reach your goals. However, at the end, it is about mental blocks and emotional problems going off, so a few months’ time will let you assess outcomes and will tell you if you need any additional help.
Self-hypnosis directly accesses the subconscious mind and influences it with pre-defined relaxation patterns sent in as energy waves. It doesn’t work the way medications do; hypnosis changes behavior patterns and improves a patient’s way of living. Any bad or wrong habit a patient might have had developed was triggered by the subconscious; implanting newer data into it overwrites previous memories that controlled excitements and other stimulation responses. Besides, it brings back the healthy way of living, which always boosts sexual power.
Most people noticed a change between the 15th and the 21st days of a consistent hypnotic implementation treatment. And before you head a professional or buy equipment, see if self-hypnosis is for you with the following few steps.
Associate any number or alphabet or word to represent the time when stimulation begins. Recite in mind the number/letter/word to convince yourself in that part of the activity even if coitus has started. It shall convince you to accept the sensations as just initial ones and there’s a long way to go. Over a fortnight, it will show results.
Note: It sounds mechanical and certainly doesn’t qualify against a hearty and dirty conversation and playing around; but if you can do that, you don’t require all that counting to make sex any better. And if you like to do that but still find it difficult when required, then self-hypnosis will help.